Sales

Give/Get Menu

Pre-priced concessions traded for quantified gets—protect margin, speed deals.

Negotiation playbook board with give and get items and guardrails

Introduction

Discounts are not strategies; they are tools. Without guardrails, discounts become the default response to any friction and margin erodes. With a clear give/get menu, concessions are deliberate trades that accelerate deals while protecting value. The customer gets what matters to them; we get what moves the business forward.

Give/gets work because they make trade-offs explicit. Instead of debating price in the abstract, we discuss scope, timing, references, and terms in a structured way. This shifts the conversation from “how much off” to “what outcome are we optimizing for” and “what can you commit to in return.”

This playbook defines a simple system: a pre-priced menu of gives, a quantified set of gets, and a light deal-desk process that ensures consistency. Reps know what they can offer, when to escalate, and how to frame trades with confidence. Finance sees fewer surprises. Customers feel respected because their priorities are acknowledged and solved for.

The goal is not to say “no.” It is to say “yes, if…”—with rules that are fair and transparent. Over time, your market learns that value is available through outcomes and commitments, not haggling alone.

Menu design

Gives (examples)

  • Volume tiering / multi-year step-downs
  • Extended payment terms (net-60/90)
  • Limited-scope professional services
  • Additional sandbox / training seats
  • Conditional discount bands (with gets)

Gets (examples)

  • Reference call / logo use approval
  • Executive meeting (sponsor created)
  • Accelerated timeline / board date
  • Expanded scope / module attach
  • Multi-year term or auto-renew

Each give has a list price and floor; each get has a quantified value or strategic impact.

Guardrails & deal-desk flow

Submissions include a one-pager: business case, requested gives, proposed gets, impact on ARR and margin, and risk notes.

Framing scripts

Worked examples

Example A — Budget pressure

Give: 6% discount + net-60. Get: 36-month term + reference + kickoff in 30 days.

Result: Lower headline price, better retention and faster revenue recognition.

Example B — Timeline pull-in

Give: Limited PS hours for accelerated onboarding.

Get: Board approval this month + logo usage.

Result: Deal closes one quarter earlier; ARR pulled forward.

Example C — Multi-product attach

Give: Step-down pricing on Module B.

Get: Commit to pilot by Week 6 + expansion decision checkpoint in Week 10.

Result: Attach achieved with controlled risk.

Metrics

Leading: % deals with quantified gets, approval cycle time, attach rate.

Lagging: discount %, gross margin, NRR uplift from multi-year/attach.

Give/Get matrix mapping concession bands to required gets and approvals

Trade deliberately. Every give buys a specific get that advances value.

Implementation checklist

Measurement

Team level: % deals within guardrails, approval SLA (hours), % deals with ≥1 quantified get, attach rate, multi-year mix, margin vs. baseline.

Individual level: give/get ratio per rep, trade quality (timeline pull-in, scope, references), logging completeness, re-approval rate.

Team buy-in

90-day rollout

Weeks 1–2 — Stand up the system

Weeks 3–4 — Pilot ten opportunities

Weeks 5–6 — Instrument & coach

Weeks 7–8 — Roll out

Weeks 9–10 — Tighten cross-functional path

Weeks 11–12 — Bake into rhythm

Companion template

Use the template to price gives, define gets and run approvals fast.

Open companion template